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5th-Oct-2005 09:55 pm
I dont know if it's just me or if other people have felt this way but i feel like the 1st woman (of hopefully not very many) i'm going to have to beat off of my boyfriend with a stick will be his mom.
my parents will not talk to me for an hour if i say "hey im having lunch with eric" they will say "ok call me later bye"
his mom talks to him for like 20-30 minutes after that and i dont know...it bugs me...and calling more than twice in an hour knowing we are out doing something...it just ::grumble::
am i being dumb or is this something that exists for other people?
6th-Oct-2005 02:24 am (UTC)
i think it's a thing with single children. especially moms with sons and dads with daughters. there's a connection there that they're reluctant to get rid of. i'm sure you're not alone in that, dear.

have you tried talking to him about it? maybe you can get him to not answer the phone and just call her back... i don't know. it sounds like it's really bugging you and you should really get it out into the air between the two of you.
6th-Oct-2005 02:52 am (UTC)
i do and he defends her :( and then i feel bad or dumb or something...i dont know...my older sis had the same thing with her husbands mom when they were dating...and his mom had 3 kids...she needs to buy a dog or something...some kind of pet
6th-Oct-2005 12:26 pm (UTC)
don't feel dumb. if it's something that you're feeling then it's totally valid.

hell, when i'm out with my friends, i don't like it when they get on the phone for a half an hour. and, likewise, i tend to not get on the phone for a half an hour if i'm out with my friends. so it's a back-and-forth thing. tell him how you feel and make sure that he knows that it's not because it's his mom, but it's because him being on the phone for all that time when you're out together makes you feel left out and unimportant.
6th-Oct-2005 02:10 pm (UTC)
ok...i couldnt word it right to him cuz he doesnt give me time to think about what i want to say ^^;; he wants to know how i feel so he can fix it asap but i think i sometimes just get him upset

i dont know how to say things right...thats why i hate writing papers for class >_<
6th-Oct-2005 02:13 pm (UTC)
if you want help with what to say, i can coach you on that. it's a delicate thing when you're dealing with something like this and it's hard to find the right words and such to deal with the situation without hurting anyone.

well, it's a learning process :) you're definitely better at it then you were when i first met you.
6th-Oct-2005 11:09 pm (UTC)
yeah i have changed...ALOT and for the better ^^
7th-Oct-2005 01:13 am (UTC)
it is true, and very good.
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